Upon graduation and having been accepted into The Master of Arts
(Religious Studies) program at the Chicago Theological Seminary (CTS), I
intended to pursue the two-year graduate program as a foundation for
service in youth counseling. Owing to the lack of financial resources, I
made the decision to defer my admissions for one year in an effort to
gain some work experience and save money.
A very good
friend of mine, Robert Landes happened to share my situation with his
father then President/CEO of his own international company and he
offered to help me by securing an interview for me with representatives
of ARA Food Services in Philadelphia, PA. Weeks later I was offered my
first job working as a trainee in the hospitality industry at Newark 's
United Hospital located in an area of Newark defined by Central Avenue
and West Market Street in the city's West Ward. I stayed in that job
position for eight months before securing a higher paying job working
for Irving Trust Company at One Wall Street in New York City. I started
there working the grave yard shift which after 1 year absolutely did not
agree with my body.
In the spring of 1979, I went out on
the evening of May 24th to a house party in East Orange with my then
roommate, Jan Peter Mitchell, who was also a former student at Holy
Cross College and now attending Seton Hall University Law School. The
party was being given for both Seton Hall University Law School and
Seton Hall University Medical School students. I was neither and thus,
Pete's guest.
That night, I met the lovely Wilda Iris
Smithers who was attending Seton Hall University Medical School in
Newark. After six months of dating we became engaged and another six
months after that we were married on June 14, 1980 at Macedonia Baptist
Church, her families church located in Lakewood, New Jersey.
An
attempt was made on my part a few years later to revisit pursuing my
original objective after college by applying to Drew Theological School.
I was accepted however one of their requirements was that all full time
students must was live in a dormitory setting on campus in Madison, New
Jersey. By now, this was no longer an appealing lifestyle for my new
bride who had experienced many years of living in cramped quarters while
pursuing her medical education and continuing professional training.
It
seemed then that maybe the time had now come for me to part with past
aspiration altogether especially if we had any plans of growing our family
in the near future. All of a sudden my life-style of working man,
husband and one day father began operating for the longest on auto-pilot.
Certainly not without bumps, bruises and minor collisions like most
other people along the way. Final Destination, not quite clear yet due to
remaining fog-like conditions.
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